
CONNECT WITH YOUR INNATE WISDOM &
THE SIX PILLARS OF RELATIONAL WELLNESS
Six-Week Live Call Series
A six-week live online journey to support your relationships with
Love, Safety, Protection, Connection, Belonging, and Sovereignty.
What is it for?
Rooted in the wisdom of Ancestral Healing Family Constellations & Neurolinguistic Programming therapies, this series supports you in functionally reconnecting to vital aspects of yourself in grounded, practical ways.
This is a straightforward, heart-centered approach utilizing systemic healing practices to bring coherence to your relations, starting with yourself.
After twelve years of facilitation and thousands of healing sessions, Zeff has observed The Six Pillars of Relational Wellness as core needs that form the basic foundation of emotional, mental and physical well-being. Our ancestral system has everything to do with our individual wellness.
The Six Pillars of
Relational Wellness
LOVE
When love has been cut-off or lost in the family system, or where a child has taken care of a parent, the flow of love becomes reversed. By healing the systemic dynamics living within us, love can be restored.
SAFETY
Often, ancestors have been suppressed, rejected, and punished for their authenticity—it was not safe to be themselves. Where this fate has lived in us, we can choose a new path—in honor of them.
PROTECTION
Many of us learned the protection we needed as a child was not available, not deserved. The strategies we adopt become dysfunctional, and reflect the dynamics of our ancestral system.
CONNECTION
A person who didn’t receive loving connection from their parents often cannot give it to their children. This cycle perpetuates through generations. By acknowledging it, we can do it differently.
BELONGING
All parts of a family system belong in the system. When a person is excluded, they seek to be included. Often this comes as an unconscious loyalty in later generations. Often, the pattern didn’t start with you.
SOVEREIGNTY
We each have the right to our own place as a person, and within our family system. When we reclaim our place, our freedom, authenticity, presence, and personal power return—and we can live in it.
This is a guided healing journey—first to deeply understand your current relationship with each of these core needs, the ancestral dynamics alive in you and your family system, and what you want to bring forth now.
This opens the healing process, so that we can bring acknowledgement and understanding to the deeper intentions behind the dysfunctions, beliefs, behaviors, and patterns that have continued to show up. Then we dive into the journey of reconnection, with enormous opportunities for new life choices that support what you’re ready for Now.
This is for the core issues, the deep beliefs, the patterns that have persisted for a lifetime (or perhaps many).
It absolutely can change.
“Zeff led our sessions with a depth of presence and emotional awareness in a safe container for sharing, processing and insights. I highly recommend Zeff’s facilitation to anyone who wants to go deeper, connect with, and expand their awareness of Self.”
— Lindsey, Family Therapist, Hawai’i
Dive into your Ancestral Intelligence
with the Six Pillars of Relational Wellness
6 Group Calls
$75
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Begins January 4, 2026
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